Grit’s Mailbag
Let’s answer some questions.
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I’ll answer this with a similar situation. My wife would wear these big annoying hoop earrings. We were on vacation once and were about to go scuba diving and she left them in. I ask “why would you wear those?” She follows with a “don’t worry about it.” I stopped worrying about it. On an old hard drive I have video of her being stared down by a barracuda that was obsessed with the dangly fishing lures that presented her carotid arteries as bullseyes.
We get back on the boat and she asks “why was he staring me down.” I passively respond with a “I wouldn’t worry about it.”
I explained it later that night, but for the time being it felt good.
Basically give it time. Marriage is a long ride and if the easy explanation isn’t accepted at first it’ll come around later. Use your time wisely and your arguments sparsely. You’ll get another shot (unlike the tomatoes that died in this standoff.)
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Egg rolls really are kind of trash. Not all fears are meant to be conquered. I’m afraid of clowns. I gain absolutely nothing by befriending a clown. Crab ran-goons are better. Or try a spring roll, they are the see through healthier version. Egg rolls will not improve your life. Go full Lonely Island and make them fear you. Don’t be a part of the system.

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No. We have the joy of dying one day.
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I hope to everything it is Trevor Bauer. You will not find a group of guys who loves some @BauerOutage more than us. Hell we’d work him into our logo if we were sure we wouldn’t get sued. Bauer forever and #FreeJoeKelly.

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It’s a bulldog. They were built to absorb everyone’s sadness with no chance of being happy themselves. They have short little legs with big bellies and faces that defy reason. This is a downhill battle. Keep trying to find the amount of activity they can handle or get a dog stroller. Just imagine being built like that. You’d be angry too.
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It gets a lot easier when you remove expectations. If you figure out how to do that please write a book and make millions. Sports are pain. No way around it.
